Female orgasmic dysfunction is a common experience for most ladies. When a female has difficulty reaching orgasm despite getting aroused, she’s experiencing orgasmic dysfunction.
There may be adequate sexual stimulation and arousal, yet no orgasm. This could be a sign of orgasmic dysfunction. It varies though.
Some take too long to reach orgasm, like needing lots of foreplay, an hour of thrusting from different positions (winks), prolonged cunnilingus, cosplay, fetish sex, and all that, before they can orgasm.
Others have never experienced orgasm at all in their lives. After an hours of foreplay and oral sex which results in copious wetness followed by penetration, tribbing, different sex positions and all the kinky stuff, and just about every sexual activity in the book, yet no orgasm. What could be more frustrating?
Or in another scenario, you get aroused and stimulated from the porn you are watching, you begin to touch your boobs and clits. As the pleasure mounts, the moans tumble out of your mouth unbidden but you are not quite there. Then you look for enhancement from your dildo. You begin to move to cloud nine, your heart beating stronger, breaths coming up faster. But just as you are thinking it will continue to build until that deep sensational feeling begins to unfurl from deep within you, the pleasure dissipates into nothing, you lose the moment.
So let us look at the 4 major types of female orgasmic dysfunction (FOD)
Female orgasmic dysfunction is also known as anorgasmia. The mode varies.
Primary anorgasmia. For those that do not experience an orgasm, you fall under this category. Despite all the kinky sex, the different experiments with various partners and all that, you do not experience any orgasm, never.
Secondary anorgasmia is second to the primary. If you have experienced orgasm sometime in the past, maybe during an orgy, a night stand, but find it difficult to achieve a repeat performance under normal circumstances, then you are under the secondary category.
General anorgasmia. Hmm, this is the most disturbing one for ladies. When one is unable to achieve orgasm no matter how hard they try, it is regarded as general anorgasmia. Masturbation, penetration, tribbing, BDSM, and so on, may produce strong arousal, stimulation and copious lubrication but never leads to orgasm.
Situation anorgasmia is the last and commonest type of anorgasmia. Many women find it difficult to orgasm but can only do so in certain specific situations. Most of us easily reach orgasm during masturbation, oral sex or when having sex with another girl.
It is possible to find solution to orgasmic dysfunction for most women. This, however, depends on the cause of the problem. Solutions can come in the form of –
– Therapy
– Deeper knowledge of one’s sexual self
– Treatment of underlying health problems
– Change in prescription
– Longer and more strategic oral sex
– Visit a gynecologist to rule out any health problem or go for treatment
– Exercise, eat healthy, drink more water
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